I love the idea of toning down on the jewelery and using special hair pieces that doesn't scream bridal. Beth Lauren's headband is playful and looks precious on. Jennifer Behr makes hair accessories that are simply stunning. I especially love this oversized floral piece with the bare shoulders and this delicate metallic lace & pearl band. These are pieces you will hold on to - and would wear again and maybe even pass along to your children - along with very special memories.